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I consider myself a pretty open-minded person. I can respect a person’s opinion, whether I agree with it or not. What I don’t respect are narrow-minded people who act like dictators of opinions. You’re entitled to your thoughts, but you don’t have the right or reason to be shoveling your views down my throat. An opinion can be just that, a thought. It doesn’t have to be right, it doesn’t have to be sound, it can just be a view! So I don’t understand why conversations have to turn sour or why a person gets so uptight about something that I may or may not have said, and then feel the need to have to validate their opinions to prove me wrong, as if I care in the least…
Now, I’m all about friendly bantering once in awhile, but I get bored really quickly of people who become so sensitive to every other thing I say and provoke unnecessary heated discussions. Simmer down, and recognize that not everybody has the same perspectives as you. (side note: I’m also not obligated to have a neutral view on MY blog, so I’ll discuss whatever I feel like, HOWEVER I feel like…)
As a result of telling people my honest opinions (which is usually what they ask for in the first place..irrronnnyy~), I become labeled “cold”, or “a bitch”. I’m sorry that I can’t be bothered to care that you’re not getting laid, or that the girl/guy you want to date is in fact just not interested in you. Sorry that I can’t be bothered to give a damn about you because your STILL “depressed”, and can’t acknowledge the reasons why!
It doesn’t take a brain scientist to recognize an attention-whore-emu from an individual who is actually facing hardships in life. I don’t condone falsity and deception. I for one would rather invest my time and energy into a person who actually needs my concern, sympathy and support. Consequently, I won’t spoonfeed you pity for no damn reason. What? You want to kill yourself you say? AGAIN? Oh no….let me sit here for the next 3hrs trying to convince you that you’re a valuable human being all the while you simply tell me that your “miserable” without actually elaborating on the causes of these so-called-“adversities”…ha! Yeah right, F-U and your emo-ways. (refer to my previous post on my take on “suicidal emos”). (once again, this post does not promote suicide in any way, shape or form)
As a friend to another friend, I will tell you if I am concerned for you if I think you are putting yourself in a bad situation. I’ll tell you to tuck in your boobies if its falling out, I’ll be there to cry and laugh with you if you need me to, I’ll make myself available to listen to you if you need to talk to me.. but I sure as in hell wont feed your ego day-in-day-out, because you’re so insecure about absolutely NOTHING. And if my refusal to be an enabler for someone who needs constant reassurance makes me a GRANDE bitch, then that’s fine with me.
This is a mock scenario of the kinds of relationships I chose not to have:
Person A: I think you’re beautiful
Person B: no…no I’m not, I’m so ugly
Person A: You’re crazy, you the most beautiful person I’ve ever seen in my life
Person B: I’m so fat..
Person A: you have a perfect body!
Person B: I wish I could look more like ______
Person A: You look 100x better than ________.
This is often how I deal with emos (in a nutshell):
Me: hey whatsup?
Marco: I think im going to go kill myself
Me: What happened?
Marco: I’m so sad…
Me: why?
Marco: yeah, I think I’m going to go kill myself, whats the point of living anyways, I’ll never have a gf
Me: are u serious…
Marco: nobody will ever love me
Me: are u serious…
Marco: I’m tired of living
“sujin has left the conversation”
I really cant wrap my head around why people need to play the victim card, or portray themselves as vulnerable to get as much sympathy and attention out of others as possible. I figure, the people who continuously behave this way with me, are probably doing the same thing with a hundred other people too. Mind you, at some point or another, I will get fed up and call you out on your tom-foolery in which one of 3 things usually happens:
1). You get angry at me and become offensive (in which I still wont give a damn)
2). You stop talking to me altogether
3). You begin to behave differently (less emo-more normal; success!)
So me neglecting to care shouldn’t really affect the outcome of anything, since there are people who will get fooled into actually caring for you. My suggestion? Stop wasting their time, stop wasting your own time and get a life. Also, I would respect a person who radiates confidence or is pleasant/comfortable to talk to in the very least infinity more than a person who reeks of EMO.
Oh and another thing, this is simply for you very opinionated people who like to put their 2 cents in on everything: unless you know every thought, circumstance, background and detail pertaining to me, I suggest you NOT dictate how I ought to conduct my relationships with people. I don’t call you out on your demeanor and dictate your mannerisms towards people (though I ought to;) do I…
Have a nice day 
Suji-
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